If you feel confident heading out in nothing but your swimsuit, more power to you, but there’s nothing wrong with wearing a t-shirt or polo short and a pair of shorts. Don’t forget to apply sunscreen, especially if you’re pale. The lobster look might get you some concerned glances, but not a lot of phone numbers
Be aware that some beaches do not allow dogs. Check the local rules before you go. Make sure to be prepared to clean up after your dog. An irresponsible dog owner won’t score any points with the ladies. Studies have shown that some breeds of dogs are better for picking up women than others: poodles, chihuahuas, golden retrievers, and labs all rank highly on the list of most attractive pooches. [3] X Research source
Sometimes a girl will act shy and say “no,” or “I don’t know” but in a coy way that suggests she’d really like to play. If this seems like the case (smiling and giggling are good indicators) give her some encouragement. “Oh, come on, you’ll be brilliant!” or “I’ll bet you throw a great spiral” would both work well. If she says “no” and does not look amused or inviting, take the hint and let her be. You won’t receive any positive attention by being pushy or aggressive. What’s more, you might run the risk of came to a hurting end if her boyfriend is near you and jealous.
Try to make sure your ball doesn’t land right on the girl or knock over her stuff. There is a fine line between endearingly clumsy and just plain irritating. Crashing a kite near a girl can also be a good ice-breaker, but make sure that you are actually in control of the kite, and don’t hit her.
Do go out and swim or surf for a good 20 minutes before returning. When you get back, thank her and playfully ask her if she had any trouble, or had to fight off any sunscreen thieves. Be sure to tell her how much you appreciate her help, and take the opportunity to begin a longer conversation. [5] X Research source If things are going well, ask for her number. Better yet, ask her what she’s doing later tonight. If she doesn’t have plans, make arrangements to meet up with her in a few hours.
Also avoid the “can I adjust your bathing suit?” gambit. This is an approach advocated on several online dating sites that is almost guaranteed to fail spectacularly. Remember that touching a girl who does not wish to be touched is sexual harassment and is punished by the law! Don’t touch a girl or her swimsuit without her express verbal permission.
Check local movie listings and event calendars to get ideas for an evening activity. Keep an ear out for upcoming parties that you might invite a girl to attend.
If it turns out she is a student, ask her about her studies and what she likes best about them, etc.
