The important thing is to always be giving his body attention with your hands. You don’t have to be frantic about it. Slowly explore his body with your hands as you move closer to him. Just remember: if all you and your boyfriend have done is kiss and you’re not comfortable with doing more, then you don’t have to run your hands all over his body or let him touch you everywhere. This may make him think that you’re ready for something more.
Not every guy likes this move, so don’t be discouraged if it turns out that this doesn’t work for your man. But if he loves it, then he’ll really love it.
Keep it simple. Just say something like, “I want you,” “You’re such a good kisser,” or “You’re so sexy” will do the trick. If he does something that drives you wild, you can say, “I love it when you. . . "
You can also kiss his neck and lick it a tiny bit, and then blow on it to make your man shiver.
Basically, you should always find something to do with your hands instead of keeping them on your lap, so if you need a break from exploring his body, touch his hair, and vice versa.
Straddle him while you’re kissing and put your arms around his neck. This is not recommended for a first makeout – you should definitely be comfortable with your boyfriend and your expectations of him before you try this!
Don’t overdo this move. Just once per makeout session will suffice.
Don’t get stuck just French kissing without moving your arms or changing positions. That can get old fast.
Give him a playful smile and say, “That was fun. "
You should both also be feeling comfortable. No stress, no pressure, no where to go, and ready to hook up.
If you’re putting on thick or scented lip gloss, do it at least an hour or two before you plan to make out.
Compliment your man a little while you’re flirting. Let him know he looks good. Eye contact is another way of flirting. If you are turning away or looking down, the guy is not going to feel that you are really in the moment.
Maintain eye contact as you pull him closer to you – along with control.
Don’t jam your tongue into his mouth right away. At first, move just the tip of your tongue into his mouth, until you’ve both moved your tongues into each other’s mouths and are gently moving them in a circular motion, or with one on top of the other.
Don’t jam your tongue into his mouth right away. At first, move just the tip of your tongue into his mouth, until you’ve both moved your tongues into each other’s mouths and are gently moving them in a circular motion, or with one on top of the other.
